When Life Does Not Make Sense

This last week in Facebook I read a story of a mother who is a believer and yet she felt that God had forsaken her. I was also reminded of a conversation with a man I play golf with when he made a statement, “If there is a God how could he allow my daughter to have MS.” Then there is a young couple I know with two children and the mother dies of cancer. How about an older couple I love who served God their whole lives spreading God's word, and the wife gets a crippling disease and then God takes her husband home, and now she is all alone in a care-home. Or how about the man who never wanted to make a vow to God but was led by God to make one. This man did everything that he said he would do and yet God did not answer the man's prayer in the way he thought. 
Life at times seems very confusing and difficult to understand; yet when our life is over, and we stand before God and ask him "why?" He will say that when you were going through these things you were only halfway through your book of life. Just like a mystery novel halfway through never makes sense, it only makes sense when you know the ending.
I wish I could say wise and comforting words to the young couple, the father and his daughter, or the elderly couple, those whose lives seem so useless now.  But as the one who made the vow to God and didn't get what he expected then, I can say: WAIT! Wait to see what God has planned for your life, with all the hurts and losses and even doubts about God. Don't give up your faith in the LORD! Stay in His Word believing what He says. It's in the waiting on God that we come to know Him better and better and how He feels about us and how His plans and ways are so much higher than ours.  God is for us, not against us!
When our life is complete will others who have watched your life be able to say that your life was not useless at all? 2 Corinthians 4:16-18 "Therefore, we do not lose heart. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So, fix your eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal."
When life gets hard it is very hard see this glory that God is talking about, therefore, we must be patient and soon we will understand it all. For now we only see through a glass dimly, but later we will see Him as He truly is: face to face.  Our life in retrospect will make beautiful sense and give glory to God.

Quiet Enough to Hear – Strong Enough to Follow

Romans 10:17 says, “So faith comes from hearing, that is, hearing the Good News about Christ.”

 

Faith begins when God speaks, but faith becomes real when a person obeys what they have heard. Many people want God to show them the entire path before they move forward, but God often reveals only the next step. Obedience usually comes before understanding. That is why faith requires trust. If everything already made sense, faith would not be necessary.

 

The world we live in is filled with noise. Every direction is pulling for attention. Fear speaks constantly. Culture pressures people to conform. Social media floods the mind with endless distraction. Many people move through life without ever becoming still long enough to hear the quiet voice of God speaking into their spirit.

 

When people say, “I have never heard Jesus speak to me,” they are often expecting something dramatic while overlooking the ways He already speaks. God speaks through Scripture, through conviction, through wisdom, and through moments when truth settles deeply into the heart. The problem is not always that God is silent. Often the problem is that our lives have become too crowded to recognize His voice.

 

I learned this lesson personally many years ago during a season when work responsibilities consumed almost every part of my day. Meetings, schedules, pressure, and constant demands filled my life. Even then, I made it a priority to wake up early every morning to spend quiet time alone with the Lord because I knew I needed His direction more than my own.

 

One night around one o’clock in the morning, I suddenly woke up and could not go back to sleep. A thought kept pressing into my spirit repeatedly, and deep inside I knew the Lord was speaking to me. Exhausted and frustrated, I finally said, “Lord, why are You speaking to me now? You know I wake up early to spend time with You. Tomorrow I have appointments all day long. I need sleep.”

 

Then these words settled deeply into my heart: “I have been speaking to you all day. This is the first time you have been still enough to hear Me.”

 

That moment changed my understanding of faith. I realized God had never stopped speaking. My life had simply become so filled with movement and responsibility that I no longer recognized His voice clearly. Stillness was not empty time. Stillness was where hearing began.

 

But hearing is only the beginning. Once God speaks, responsibility follows. Noah heard God and built an ark before rain had ever fallen. Abraham heard God and walked away from everything familiar without knowing where he was going. Peter heard Jesus say “Come” and stepped onto water while everyone else remained safely in the boat. In every case, faith acted before the outcome was visible.

 

That is where many people struggle. They want guarantees before obedience. They want proof before movement. But faith trusts God enough to move forward even when the situation appears impossible.

 

Psalm 46:10 says, “Be still, and know that I am God.” Stillness positions the heart to hear, but courage is what allows a person to follow.

 

Jesus said in John 10:27, “My sheep hear my voice; I know them, and they follow me.” Hearing and following were never meant to be separated.

 

“The voice of God is rarely loud, but it is always clear to the heart willing to listen.” — A. W. Tozer

 

The Lord is still speaking. The question is whether we are quiet enough to hear Him and strong enough to obey Him.

 

What the World Calls Freedom

Hebrews 12:1 NLT says, “Let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up.”

Modern culture talks endlessly about freedom, but much of what the world now calls freedom is actually bondage. People are told to follow every desire, embrace every impulse, and reject anyone who says certain behavior is wrong. Society says freedom means doing whatever feels good, whatever feels natural, or whatever makes a person happy in the moment. But many of the very things being celebrated today are destroying lives from the inside out.

 

Turn on the news for one hour and you will see the evidence everywhere. Families collapse through adultery and abandonment. Addiction destroys minds and bodies. Pornography enslaves millions in silence. Anger and hatred pour across social media every minute of the day. Corruption, greed, violence, pride, and deception dominate headlines. What once brought shame is now defended, celebrated, and normalized.

 

The tragedy is that many people no longer recognize the chains because they have lived with them for so long. Lust becomes identity. Anger becomes personality. Greed becomes ambition. Pride becomes empowerment. Sin disguises itself as freedom while quietly enslaving the soul.

 

Deep inside, many people know something is wrong. They promise themselves they will change, but the cycle keeps repeating. The anger returns. The addiction returns. The lust returns. The emptiness returns. Sin always promises satisfaction, but it never stops demanding more.

 

That is why Jesus Christ came.

 

Jesus did not come only to forgive sin. He came to break its power. The cross was not simply about eternity after death. It was about freedom now. When a person truly surrenders their life to Christ, the Holy Spirit begins changing the heart from the inside out. The struggle may still exist, but sin no longer has to remain master.

 

Many people ask, “If I accept Jesus Christ, will He help me overcome the sin that keeps defeating me?” The answer is yes. God does not ask people to fix themselves before coming to Him. He asks them to surrender honestly, repent sincerely, and trust Him completely. The same God who forgives sin also gives power to fight it.

 

Real freedom is not the ability to do whatever you want. Real freedom is no longer being controlled by the things destroying you.

 

“There is no slave more hopeless than the one who falsely believes he is free.” — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

 

God still forgives. God still transforms. And God still breaks chains for those willing to surrender everything to Him.

 

Look Beneath the Surface

In John 7:24, Jesus says, “Look beneath the surface so you can judge correctly.” Those words may be more important today than ever before.

 

We live in a world filled with surface thinkers. Many people no longer stop to question what they hear. They read headlines but never the story. They repeat slogans without examining truth. They react emotionally instead of thinking deeply. God gave every person the ability to reason, discern, and seek wisdom, yet our culture rewards blind agreement more than honest thought.

 

Much of today’s media and many political leaders depend on people staying shallow. Instead of encouraging questions, they push narratives designed to control emotions. People are told what to think about morality, family, faith, gender, race, and politics, and anyone who questions the narrative is often mocked or attacked. The goal is not thoughtful discussion but emotional obedience.

 

Now artificial intelligence has made this even more dangerous. AI can create fake videos, fake voices, fake images, and false stories that appear completely real. A person can watch something online and believe it instantly without ever asking if it is true. If people already believe everything they see, AI will make deception easier than ever before.

 

Jesus warned against this kind of shallow judgment. Appearances can be manipulated. Loud voices are not always truthful voices. Popular opinions are not always right. A compassionate-sounding message can still lead people away from truth.

 

God never called His people to blindly follow culture, media, or political movements. He called them to think, seek wisdom, and discern truth. Proverbs 14:15 says, “The simple believe anything, but the prudent give thought to their steps.”

 

“A culture that stops thinking deeply becomes easy to deceive, easy to divide, and easy to control.” — Michael Dietz

 

In a world filled with manipulation and deception, the words of Jesus still stand: “Look beneath the surface so you can judge correctly.”

 

Destroy the Messenger

America has never elected a perfect man because perfect men do not exist. Every president in our history has carried flaws, pride, ego, weaknesses, bad decisions, or moral failures because human nature itself is imperfect. Yet today, it seems many people believe that if a leader has personal flaws, then everything he accomplishes should automatically be rejected, even if the policies strengthen the nation, protect freedom, improve the economy, or restore stability.

 

Ronald Reagan was not a perfect man, but millions believed his leadership restored American confidence, strengthened the economy, and helped bring down Soviet communism. Jimmy Carter was viewed by many as personally decent and morally respectable, yet many Americans also believed his policies weakened the economy, weakened energy independence, and left the nation discouraged and uncertain about its future.

 

That is the reality history forces us to confront. Strong leadership has never come from perfect people. In fact, some of the most polished, eloquent, and personally likable leaders have led nations into weakness and decline, while flawed men with strong convictions helped preserve freedom and restore strength during difficult times.

 

This does not mean character is unimportant. Character matters. Morality matters. Humility matters. But policies matter too because policies affect real families, real businesses, real freedoms, and the future direction of an entire nation.

 

What concerns me today is that America increasingly judges leaders almost entirely through emotion, personality, style, and presentation instead of results. And when people cannot honestly debate the success or failure of policies, they often shift the attack toward the individual bringing those policies. The battle stops being about whether the policies work and becomes entirely about ego, personality, tone, personal flaws, or offensive remarks.

 

I see the same thing even in my own world of construction disputes and negotiations. When the debate is focused on facts, contracts, timelines, costs, and accountability, real issues can be discussed honestly. But when the other side can no longer defend their position with facts, the conversation often changes from attacking the issue to attacking the person presenting it. At that point, I usually smile, because experience has taught me something important: when someone can no longer defend their argument, human nature shifts toward trying to destroy the messenger.

 

That is why this quote rings so true today:

“When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser.”

— Often attributed to Socrates

 

That same pattern is now everywhere in politics and culture.

 

If policies create jobs, strengthen borders, lower inflation, restore energy independence, reduce foreign conflict, and improve life for ordinary Americans, critics often avoid debating those outcomes directly. Instead, they attack the character, temperament, mannerisms, or personal imperfections of the leader because emotional reactions are easier to create than honest policy debates.

 

Scripture reminds us in 1 Samuel 16:7, “Man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.”

 

Perhaps America should remember that lesson. Human beings will always be flawed, and no political leader will ever fully satisfy our hopes because perfection will never come through government or politics.

 

Someday the perfect ruler will come, but until then, America will continue choosing between imperfect people while trying to preserve freedom, truth, faith, responsibility, and the values that once made this nation strong.

Word of God Speak

“When we learn to be quiet before God, we begin to hear what truly matters.” — A.W. Tozer

 

Jesus said, “Pay close attention to what you hear. The closer you listen, the more understanding you will be given.” — Mark 4:24

 

We live in a world full of noise. Every day people are flooded with fear, anger, division, politics, opinions, and endless distractions. Most people wake up listening to the world before they ever take a moment to listen to God. After a while, the constant noise begins shaping the heart. Fear replaces peace. Anger replaces compassion. Confusion replaces wisdom.

 

What you listen to matters because it slowly becomes part of you. A person who constantly feeds their mind with negativity eventually loses hope. A person who only listens to outrage begins living in frustration. That is why Jesus warned us to pay attention to what we hear. The voices we allow into our spirit will eventually shape the direction of our life.

 

God does not compete with the chaos of the world. While the world shouts, God often speaks in a still, quiet voice. Scripture says, “Your own ears will hear Him. Right behind you a voice will say, ‘This is the way you should go.’” — Isaiah 30:21

 

When a person slows down enough to listen, something inside begins to change. The hardened heart softens. Bitterness begins to leave. Wisdom grows. Faith becomes stronger than fear. God brings clarity instead of confusion and peace instead of panic. His voice does not push people deeper into anger and division. It leads people toward truth, wisdom, humility, and peace.

 

The Lord promises to give His people a new spirit and a new heart. He lifts those carrying heavy burdens and stays close to those who sincerely call on Him. While the world continues chasing power, money, and political answers, many are still left empty because human strength cannot heal a wounded soul.

 

That is why Scripture warns us not to place our trust in powerful people. Leaders fail. Systems collapse. Public opinion changes constantly. But God remains faithful through every season of life. His truth does not change with culture, politics, or popular opinion.

 

Maybe that is why so many people still feel restless even after consuming endless information every day. They are hearing everything except the one voice that can truly give peace. Sometimes the greatest thing a person can do is step away from the noise of the world long enough to hear the voice of God again.

The Liberal Left’s Addiction to Blaming Trump

“It’s easier to fool people than to convince them that they have been fooled.” — Mark Twain

 

Yesterday a man posted a picture of his fuel bill after filling up his truck. It cost him over $200 just to put gas in his tank so he could continue going to work, provide for his family, and survive in California. Across the picture he wrote, “F*** Gavin Newsom.” Within minutes, one of his liberal friends responded with the predictable political response: “Thank Trump for his war in Iran.”

 

What stood out was not the insult or the argument, but the question the man asked afterward: “Why is California paying almost $2 more per gallon than the rest of America?” It was a direct question based on observable reality, yet instead of answering it, the conversation immediately turned back toward blaming Trump. That has become the pattern with the liberal left. Every problem somehow leads back to Trump and the MAGA movement, even when the policies causing the problem were created and enforced by Democrat leadership at the state and local level for years.

 

California has been controlled almost entirely by Democrats for decades. They control the governor’s office, the legislature, regulatory agencies, and most major cities. The policies affecting fuel prices, business regulations, taxes, environmental restrictions, housing, and law enforcement are overwhelmingly created by the same political ideology that now refuses to take responsibility for the outcome. California’s extreme gas taxes and refinery regulations were not created by conservatives. The cost of living crisis did not appear because of Trump supporters. The exodus of businesses and middle-class families from California is not the result of MAGA voters in other states. These are the consequences of policies pushed by the liberal left while they simultaneously attempt to shift the blame elsewhere.

 

What makes this even more frustrating is the constant claim of intellectual and moral superiority coming from many on the left. They present themselves as more educated, more compassionate, and more informed, yet when ordinary people ask legitimate questions about why life is becoming harder, they are often mocked, dismissed, or labeled politically instead of answered honestly. If a working father complains about gas prices, he is accused of being misinformed. If small business owners criticize regulations, they are attacked politically rather than listened to. If families question why California continues declining despite enormous tax revenue and one-party control, they are told the real problem is still Trump.

 

At some point, honest people have to stop ignoring what is directly in front of them. If decades of leadership produce higher costs, more dependence on government, worsening homelessness, rising crime, failing infrastructure, and a shrinking middle class, then accountability matters. Real leadership means accepting responsibility when policies fail, not constantly searching for a political enemy to blame.

 

The liberal left has become so emotionally invested in opposing Trump that many can no longer separate political hatred from objective reality. Trump has become the explanation for everything that goes wrong, regardless of who is actually governing, legislating, or making policy decisions. That level of political obsession prevents honest reflection because admitting failure would require questioning the ideology they have defended for years.

 

Until the liberal left begin holding their own political leaders accountable instead of automatically blaming Trump for every hardship in America, the same failed cycle will continue repeating itself. Nothing improves when accountability disappears and ideology matters more than results.

 

Why Jerusalem Matters

I was asked why Jerusalem is so important and why so many people have died fighting over it. The answer is much deeper than politics, land, or religion alone. Jerusalem is important because it is the city connected to the throne of God. The fight over Jerusalem has never truly been about land. It has always been about who will rule the earth.

 

There are bigger cities in the world, richer cities, and more beautiful cities filled with money, armies, trade, and power. Jerusalem has none of those things in comparison, yet the entire world is obsessed with it. Kings have marched armies across deserts to conquer it. Empires have destroyed themselves trying to hold it. Millions have died in wars surrounding it. Even now, nations argue over every stone in that city as if the future of the world somehow depends on it. Spiritually, it does.

 

God chose Jerusalem for Himself. He placed His name there. He allowed His Temple to be built there. It became the place connected to His presence, His authority, and His Kingdom. Jerusalem became a reminder to the world that there is a God above all kings, rulers, and nations. That is why evil hates it. From the beginning, Satan has wanted one thing — the throne. He wanted worship. He wanted authority. He wanted to take the place that belongs to God alone. That rebellion began in heaven and spread into the earth through pride, violence, kingdoms, rulers, and nations that reject God. Jerusalem stands against that rebellion because the city is a reminder that God will rule and that His Kingdom will come whether man accepts it or not. Satan hates Jerusalem because it points to the day his power ends.

 

That is why there has always been blood around the city. Babylon destroyed it. Rome burned it. Crusaders slaughtered people trying to possess it. Islamic empires fought over it. Hitler tried to wipe out the people connected to it. Terrorists still kill over it today. Nation after nation has tried to control Jerusalem because spiritually the city represents dominion, authority, and the future throne of the King of Kings. Many believers also believe something even deeper is happening behind the conflict. Satan understands prophecy. He knows Jerusalem is tied to the return of Christ, the judgment of evil, and the establishment of God’s Kingdom on the earth. Because of that, evil fights endlessly to control, corrupt, divide, and surround Jerusalem with chaos and bloodshed.

 

In a spiritual sense, darkness acts as though if Jerusalem can remain trapped in war, rebellion, false worship, and human control, then mankind can continue resisting God’s rule. The battle becomes much bigger than politics. It becomes the final rebellion against Heaven itself. That is why the hatred surrounding Jerusalem feels unnatural. No other city this small causes this much rage in the nations. The enemy knows Jerusalem points to the moment his power ends. It points to the day Christ returns, evil is judged, and the kingdoms of man fall before the Kingdom of God.

 

The battle over Jerusalem is really the battle over the future of the earth. Men want power without God. Nations want peace without God. The world wants to build its own kingdom. But Jerusalem stands as a declaration that one day Jesus Christ will return and rule the nations. That is what darkness fears. The closer the world moves toward that day, the more chaos will surround Jerusalem. War will increase. Hatred will increase. Deception will increase. The world will rage because the kingdoms of men do not want to surrender to the authority of God.

 

But evil does not win. The Bible says Jesus will return to Jerusalem, not as a suffering man, but as King. The kingdoms of the earth will fall before Him. Human pride, corruption, violence, greed, and rebellion will finally be crushed. The throne men and demons have fought over for thousands of years will belong openly and forever to Christ. When God takes His rightful place in Jerusalem, everything changes. War ends. Evil is judged. Darkness loses its power. Satan’s rule comes to an end. The nations are brought under the authority of Christ. The earth is restored. Peace finally fills the world the way God intended from the beginning.

 

Jerusalem matters because it is the place where the war between rebellion and God reaches its final ending. It is the city tied to the return of Christ, the defeat of evil, and the beginning of the eternal Kingdom of God. That is why the world cannot stop fighting over it, and that is why the fight will continue until the true King takes His throne.

 

The Left’s America Built on Sand

Since I am a builder, I understand something very clearly: no structure can stand for long if it is built on sand instead of a solid foundation. A building may look impressive from a distance. It may appear strong for a season. But if the foundation underneath it is weak, unstable, or poorly designed, eventually the cracks begin to show. Pressure exposes weakness. Time exposes poor workmanship. And collapse eventually becomes unavoidable.

 

That truth applies not only to buildings, but also to nations.

 

In construction, every successful project begins with a clear vision, engineered plans, structural integrity, and a foundation strong enough to carry the weight of everything built upon it. Without those things, confusion takes over. Costs explode. Mistakes multiply. Systems fail because nothing was designed to work together correctly from the beginning.

 

Imagine trying to build a major hotel with no architectural plans, no structural engineer, no coordinated design, and no clear understanding of what the finished structure is even supposed to become. Concrete would be poured in the wrong places. Walls would constantly need to be demolished and rebuilt. Plumbing, electrical, and mechanical systems would conflict with one another because no unified plan existed to guide the project. Schedules would collapse, money would be wasted, and eventually the structure itself would become dangerous because the foundation was never properly established.

 

No serious builder would ever approach a project that way.

 

Yet when I look at many of the ideas being pushed in America today by progressive leaders and voices on the political left, that is exactly what I see happening to our country.

 

Instead of strengthening the principles that made America successful, they continue tearing away at the very foundations that created stability, growth, opportunity, and freedom in the first place. They promote emotionally driven policies, government dependence, and economic experiments without fully understanding the long-term consequences of the systems they are building.

 

One of the clearest examples today is the growing push for a wealth tax. The idea sounds simple. Tax the wealthy more heavily, redistribute the money, and somehow government will create fairness and solve society’s problems. But that way of thinking ignores the reality of how economies, businesses, investment, and opportunity actually function.

 

As a builder, I understand that when too much weight is placed on one part of a structure, the pressure eventually transfers throughout the entire building. Cracks begin appearing everywhere else. The same thing happens economically. When government continually punishes the people building businesses, creating jobs, investing capital, and taking risks, eventually the entire system begins weakening. Businesses stop expanding. Investors pull back. Employers relocate. Families leave states where opportunity is being replaced by overregulation, excessive taxation, and growing government control.

 

We are already seeing this happen in places like California and New York. States that were once symbols of innovation and opportunity are now losing businesses, losing residents, and watching middle-class families struggle under rising costs and economic pressure. Yet instead of admitting the design is failing, many leaders simply demand more taxes, more spending, more regulation, and more government power, as though pouring more money into a cracked foundation will somehow stop the structure from collapsing.

 

As a builder, that makes absolutely no sense to me.

 

America became the greatest nation in the world because it was built upon opportunity. Our founders understood something powerful and unique. Government was never meant to guarantee equal outcomes. It was meant to protect freedom and create an environment where every person had the opportunity to pursue success through hard work, sacrifice, determination, faith, and personal responsibility.

 

That is why our founding principles speak about the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. It does not promise happiness. It does not promise wealth. It does not promise success. It protects the God-given freedom for every individual to pursue those things for themselves. That idea built America.

 

This nation was built by farmers, laborers, entrepreneurs, inventors, tradesmen, and builders willing to work, sacrifice, risk failure, and persevere. America rewarded innovation, ambition, discipline, and responsibility. People came from all over the world because this was the one place where opportunity existed for anyone willing to work for it.

 

But today, many political movements no longer celebrate achievement. They increasingly attack it. Instead of encouraging self-reliance, they promote dependence. Instead of teaching responsibility, they expand entitlement. Instead of strengthening foundations, they continue adding weight to a structure already showing signs of stress.

 

A building cannot survive if the foundation is constantly weakened underneath it. Eventually the structure begins collapsing from within regardless of how impressive it may still appear on the outside.

 

Ronald Reagan once said, “Government does not solve problems, it subsidizes them.” Those words feel more relevant today than ever before because many of the problems facing America are not being solved. They are being expanded, funded, politicized, and used to justify even greater government control.

 

The Bible warns us clearly in Psalm 11:3, “If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?” As a builder, I understand exactly what that means because everything depends on the foundation. The strength of any structure is determined long before the walls ever go up. If the foundation becomes weak, cracked, or compromised, the structure above it will eventually fail under pressures it was never designed to carry.

 

America’s greatest strength was never simply wealth, military power, or political influence. America became great because it was built upon moral, spiritual, and constitutional foundations that valued freedom, faith, opportunity, responsibility, and the God-given right of every person to build a better future.

The Disappearance of Integrity

“Honesty guides good people; dishonesty destroys treacherous people.”

— Proverbs 11:3 (NLT)

 

At 75 years old, I sometimes sit quietly and wonder what my mother and father would think if they could see America today. My father was born in 1906. My mother in 1909. They lived through world wars, the Great Depression, hard winters, and times when people survived because they trusted God, worked hard, and leaned on each other. They did not have much money, but they had values. A handshake meant something. A promise meant something. Children were taught respect, discipline, honesty, and responsibility at a young age. My parents were not perfect people, but they believed there were lines you simply did not cross. I often think they would be heartbroken by what they see now.

 

They would not understand how truth became something people argue about instead of something people live by. They would struggle watching news stations twist every story to fit political agendas while calling it journalism. They would shake their heads watching grown men and women scream at each other on television while millions sit divided and angry in their homes. They would never understand how drag shows became acceptable for children, why schools are confusing young minds about gender and identity, or why people are mocked today simply for believing the Bible.

 

My parents came from a generation that believed freedom required responsibility. Today many people believe freedom means doing whatever feels good without consequences. That change has damaged families, churches, schools, and communities. We now live in a culture where social media influencers have become role models, where young people spend more time learning from TikTok than from parents, pastors, or grandparents. Many people no longer ask, “Is this right?” They ask, “Will this make me happy?” or “Will this get attention?”

 

I believe one of the biggest reasons integrity has disappeared is because we stopped teaching people to fear God. When my parents were raising children, faith was not hidden in the corner of life. It shaped the home. It shaped decisions. It shaped how people treated others. Today God has been pushed out of schools, pushed out of public life, and in many cases pushed out of churches that no longer want to offend anyone. Once a nation stops answering to God, it begins answering only to itself, and that always leads to confusion.

 

I have watched our country slowly trade wisdom for feelings. People are encouraged to follow emotions instead of truth. Pride is celebrated while humility is ignored. Young people are told they can create their own truth, their own identity, and even their own morality. But without truth, people become lost. That is exactly what we are seeing now: anxiety, anger, depression, division, addiction, broken families, and confusion everywhere you look.

 

Still, after all these years, I believe there is hope.

 

The answer is not more political fighting or louder voices on social media. The answer is a return to God, family, truth, and personal responsibility. Parents must raise their children instead of letting culture raise them. Men must lead their homes with strength and humility. Churches must preach truth again without fear. And people like me, who have lived long enough to see the damage caused by moral compromise, must have the courage to speak honestly while there is still time.

 

At 75 years old, I have learned that integrity is not built during easy times. It is built when a person stands for what is right even when the world stands against them. My parents taught me that character matters more than popularity, truth matters more than comfort, and faith matters more than public approval. Looking at the world today, I realize how right they were all along.

 

The Dangerous Redefinition of Authoritarianism

When celebrities like Jane Fonda, Bette Midler, and Patti Smith gather to warn America about authoritarianism, the first question should be simple: what do they actually mean by that word? Authoritarianism once described governments that imprisoned dissidents, silenced opposition, controlled information, and ruled through fear. It described nations where citizens could not speak freely, challenge power, or oppose leaders without punishment. That word carried the weight of real tyranny. Today it is thrown at Donald Trump as a political weapon.

 

Yet during Trump’s presidency Americans protested freely, criticized him nonstop, mocked him on national television, voted in free elections, and watched courts rule against him repeatedly. Congress investigated and impeached him. Governors openly defied him. Opposition media attacked him every day without censorship or punishment. Those are not the marks of authoritarian rule.

 

What truly frightened the political establishment was not dictatorship. It was disruption. Trump challenged a political and cultural system many Americans no longer trusted. He forced conversations about borders, crime, trade, corruption, media bias, government spending, and failed leadership that elites preferred to avoid. His style was blunt and confrontational, but millions supported him because they believed he spoke honestly about problems others ignored.

 

At the same time Americans watched cities like San Francisco collapse into visible decline with homelessness, open drug use, rising crime, shuttered businesses, and streets many residents no longer recognize. California moved from massive surpluses to major deficits while families struggled under crushing housing costs, taxes, regulation, and inflation. Leaders continued speaking about compassion and progress while ordinary citizens absorbed the consequences.

 

“Reality eventually exposes what slogans try to hide.”

 

Every government promise carries a cost. Expanding programs requires more spending, more taxation, larger bureaucracy, and greater government control over economic and social life. Benefits may provide temporary relief, but the long-term burden falls on working families through rising debt, inflation, higher costs, and growing dependence on systems that become increasingly unsustainable. Many Americans believe that is the real divide in the country. One vision encourages greater dependence on government for stability and security. The other believes nations remain strong only when people value personal responsibility, economic freedom, accountability, strong communities, and self-reliance.

 

As frustration grew, millions of Americans stopped trusting institutions that insisted everything was improving while their daily lives became more difficult. They questioned why crime, addiction, debt, and cultural division continued worsening despite endless promises and massive public spending. Instead of accountability, they often saw slogans, blame, and efforts to silence disagreement.

 

“The moment citizens become afraid to question approved narratives; freedom begins to erode.”

 

That is why many Americans no longer believe Trump most closely resembles authoritarianism. They believe the stronger resemblance increasingly appears within political and cultural movements that pressure speech, punish dissent, censor opposing viewpoints, and demand ideological conformity. Citizens questioning immigration policy, crime, government spending, education, public health decisions, or cultural issues are often attacked personally instead of debated openly. Social media censorship, professional punishment for dissenting opinions, and coordinated efforts to label disagreement as misinformation caused many Americans to believe the modern liberal left increasingly resembles the authoritarian behavior it claims to oppose.

 

“Freedom dies when disagreement becomes forbidden.”

 

To many Americans, the real danger is no longer one politician. It is a growing culture that demands obedience to approved narratives while discouraging independent thought. History shows that freedom is not usually lost all at once. It disappears gradually when truth becomes secondary to ideology and when citizens are taught to fear speaking honestly more than they fear national decline itself.