Soon, you will want to marry and have a family. But let me tell you what kind of woman you should stay away from. She will be the one who will catch your eye, because she knows what will attract you. She will say, “How can you tell me, ‘I love you,’ when you don’t share your secrets with me?” She will torment you with her nagging day after day until you are sick to death of it. She will manipulate you by trying to make you feel guilty until you have no strength left. You will be so warn out trying to please her that you won’t realize that you have spent no time with your Lord – to know what truly pleases Him. You will become a man with no vision, bound with chains of guilt, and forced to grind out a living that is never enough.
When you marry you are no longer two but one. God has said that no one better split apart what God has joined together. If you want a great family then lead your family by following the Lord, not your wife. Humanly speaking, this might seem impossible, but remember that with God everything is possible. When you lead – you must lead by being a servant. Show her what true love is by getting to know her beyond her beauty. Lead your wife and children as a man being lead by the Lord; for the Lord will cover you.
Lord, I give my grandsons to you, and I trust in your unfailing love. I will rejoice because You will answer my prayer by each of them recognizing a jezebel woman. You will show them each the wife best for them, and they will be blessed like I have been blessed.